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There are some great books on the topics of female domination and D/s relationships out there. You might want to take a look at what I came upon a while back.

Uniquely Rika

Description from Amazon. This is NOT your typical D/s manual. Uniquely Rika provides a practical, intelligent, common-sense approach to adding D/s to your relationship; with long-termed success. You’ll see how fulfilling the inner desire to serve or be served is within your reach – without having to mask yourself in artificial roles and games. Ms. Rika explains why several popular approaches fail to last. She then details her approach to creating successful D/s relationships; one which has proven as effective with seasoned D/s players as with those who never thought themselves to be a ‘dominant’ or ’submissive’. Regardless of your experience level, Uniquely Rika will provide a new insight, a heightened awareness, and a fresh perspective on D/s that will enhance your relationships, forever. Though written from the ‘female-led’ perspective, the concepts are applicable to any loving partners. If you’re serious about a lasting and meaningful D/s-based relationship, you’ll want to read “Uniquely Rika”.

Review by MsSkylar. Being in the lifestyle for many years, it was such a pleasant surprise to find a well thought out, well written book about D/s and the beauty of the dynamic from a female dominant point of view. Although, it is not necessary to share this perspective to benefit from this read!
The book is wonderful – full of information, shared experience and all done with a lovely sense of humor. It is a joyful, and loving, easy read. Ms Rika delves into the female led relationship using examples from her own life experience and shows how to interpret what she writes into reality. Dominant or submissive it is a wonderful tool and a must have for your collection about BDSM.
With the ease of Ms Rika’s writing, the only thing I could add is I wished it were longer! I look forward to more from this writer and hope she goes more in depth and share’s it back to us with many more books. I can not say enough!

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Gracing no man’s land


Description from Amazon. Gracing No Man’s Land. By Annabel Penrose “A pioneering, a thrilling, and yes, a sisterly book, that is imbued with so much forbidden imagination and diverse individual expression, it will no doubt challenge freedom of speech, push staid limits and boundaries, and bravely explore what may be for some at least, the intimidating prospect of a female fantasy world.” Dr Lauren Wilkinson, from her Foreword. “Delicious!an illustrated pandora’s box!at last an intelligent sex counseling book exploring sadomasochism and sexual fetishes through the erotic memoir of real sadists and submissives” Chicago Marriage Guidance Synopsis. Recorded over 10 years through personal interviews,confidential writings, letters and audio tapes, it is a delight to read Annabel Penrose’s educative and fascinating compilation of fantasies from the professional and private global S&M scenes. This important book is an explorative masterpiece of sexual politics and human identity, presenting an intellectual and sympathetic insight into the lawful realm of Women’s (and Men’s) deepest, and most imaginative secret hiding places. “Like Nancy Friday’s ‘My Secret Garden’, like Dr Alex Comfort’s ‘The Joy of Sex’, this book is for buying, sharing and enrichment” Mike Hartford, Sydney Evening News “A liberating, freeing and rewarding experience” Susan Becksley-Smith, USA Good Sex Guide “Brave and compelling…The Story of O meets the Kama Sutra. Gracing no man’s land revels in a literary oasis of intimate S&M secrets and kinky fetish taboos.” John Storr, Sexual Times

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The Mistress manual


Review by Girldiver. I don’t usually gravitate towards the dominance side of bdsm but I did have a lover at one time who wished to explore his own submissive nature. This book is an excellent education for any woman or man, for that matter, who is interested in experiencing female dominance. This is not a simple overview of female dominance or bdsm techniques but a true manual that takes you through the evolution of becoming a Mistress and the enacting of fantasy with your male partner. If you are new to the concept of female dominance this is an excellent book to guide you through the pleasure and pain of being the ultimate Nursemaid, Governess, Queen, Amazon, or Goddess. The book is broken into three main sections: Becoming a Mistress, The Mistress in Action, and The Five Archetypal Fantasies.
Becoming a Mistress brings light to idea of female dominance and the pleasure that can come from command while also discussing the psychological aspects of dominance and finding a partner to explore your fantasies. I enjoyed this section immensely since so many factors concerning personal guilt and relationships are addressed in regards to female dominance. If you’re new to the sensual art of dominance you will gather a great deal of self-awareness and understanding in this section concerning bdsm and female dominance
The Mistress in Action begins the real sexual play of dominance between you and your male partner. From the language of dominance to the ties that bind you’ll learn some basics that you can expand on with additional reading. This is an excellent book for the novice domme. Once you and our submissive discover specific items that are enjoyable I highly recommend SM101 by Jay Wiseman to explore more techniques and in-depth understanding of BDSM.
The Five Archetypal Fantasies are The Nursemaid, The Governess, The Queen, The Amazon, and the Goddess. Each archetype is outlined from elements of the fantasy, skills needed in the fantasy, enacting the perfect scenario, and variations of each fantasy. If you’re unsure how to begin this section will eliminate all doubts. This is a step by step how to from what you should be thinking to create the fantasy to what to wear.
Another great part of this book is that conflict between fantasy choice between you and your submissive is discussed and addressed thoroughly so that everybody wins so you can move on to the sensual art of female dominance. As I mentioned I don’t gravitate to dominance but if I ever needed to help someone fulfill their fantasy to be dominated by a Nursemaid, Governess, Queen, Amazon, or Goddess I know exactly how to take control now that I’ve read The Mistress Manual.

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The art of sensual Female Dominance: a guide for Women


Product Description. Are you looking for something novel in your sex life, a new and exciting way to express your most intimate feelings? The Art of Sensual Female Dominance is an introduction to a different, more daring love-style. Leather one night, lace the next, D&S can provide the techniques and confidence to turn you into a different woman every night, the possibilities limited only by your imagination. Besides bringing adventure to the bedroom, female dominance can be liberating and life-changing, putting you in touch with your female power and heightening your self-esteem.


From the Author. Many [players] feel that, with planning and the love of a caring partner, D&S can be a safe way to heal, change, and grow. Although each partner is strong enough to stand alone, each needs the other for the acceptance all humans crave, for validation, for someone to trust with the erotic fantasies in their secret heart. As you play at D&S, never forget that you are holding your partner’s trust and fantasies in your hand, and extend around him the protective shield he needs at this time. Enjoy your time at the “top,” but remember the one who put you there.


Customer review. Great book that takes a look at femdom from all angles, safety, psychological, erotic, how-to’s, knot tying, new uses for household goods. *snicker* I am a newbie but have always had bits of dominance play peeking out here and there since I was a kid. This book has helped me get in touch with the inner Amazon dominatrix that has been trying to claw her way out. This book fueled additions to my toy box and my fantasy life. Excellent book for women already interested in it, but for a woman who needs to be convinced, “The Sexually Dominant Woman: a Workbook for Nervous Beginners” by Lady Green is a gentler starting point. Have fun ladies!!!

The book Psychopathia Sexualis (1886) is the best-known work of the Austrian psychiatrist Krafft-Ebing. It is basically about sexual perversity: a series of case studies dealing with such topics as sadism, masochism (he came up with the terms, btw), homosexuality, etc. Despite the “scientificity” of the work, it was quite popular among lay readers. But of course, Psychopathia Sexualis is one of the most important works in history regarding human sexuality. Much has changed since… Views have changed significantly on the subject of perversity. Electricity, communication, cinema had their effect on us… But, the heart of mankind is still the same. So, enjoy reading!

Some excerpts from the Masochism chapter:

…He felt an impulse to throw himself at her feet, kiss them, and follow her like a dog or slave. Her “majestic” feet clad in patent leather boots especially captivated him. He trembled with voluptuous excitement. During the night he could not find sleep for the thought of the woman haunted him. He imagined that he was kissing this woman’s feet. This fancy superinduced ejaculation…

…He reveled in the thought of the pretty foot of an imperious woman and associated this thought with the olfactory impression he would receive from its proximity. In erotic dreams he would follow such women. Rain would begin to fall and the woman raising her skirts would show her pretty foot, ankle and calf, encased in a silken stocking. As soon as he grasped and fondled the warm form, so soft and yet so firm, he would ejaculate. On rainy days he used to patrol the streets to see such scenes in reality. If he saw what he came for he would carry away the impression in his memory and it became the object of his nightly dreams and acts of psychical masturbation…

…His dreams and libidinous ecstasies were also mingled with fancies of a purely masochistic character, e.g., a woman but slightly clad stood in front of him holding a whip in her hand, whilst he knelt at her feet like a slave. She would cut him with the whip, put her foot on his neck, face or mouth, till he consented to sniff at length the secretion between the naked toes…

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